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The 4-hour Work Week Part II

2 Oct

Apparently, my post on September 30th hit a nerve as I have been hearing about it! I guess there are lots of us who feel overwhelmed balance family, career, and dealing with all the technology that was supposed to make our lives so much easier and save us so much time (just curious, what are you doing with all your extra time?). Below is her UNEDITED email used with her permission (company info removed at her request). She is a the stage in life where time is more important than money. So like me, she is trying to figure out this work/life balance thing and still make professional contributions while making a living. Here’s her email:

Looking back I have made big changes-but things sneak in and my goals get off track and out of focus too easy:

  • I reduced travel (I only make 3-4 trips a year)
  • I am targeting a work week of 50-55 hours now (in 2006 the 70-80 workweeks were physically killing me)
  • By June 30, 2010 (my husband’s b’day) I plan to go to a 3 day work week or seasonal role. Not sure how or where this will be but this is my target. The tricky part as you know is to find a way to maintain my income with the reduced work hours. Maybe I can find this in the book you mention (The 4-Hour Work Week for those just tuning in).
  • Work only a max. of 4 hours on the weekend. I have taken myself out of a leadership role with no direct reports. I am now slipping back out of necessity-recruiting someone to help me so I can meet my 50-55 hours-looking for someone that will be able to work independently and maybe eventually be able to take my full time role. I recently started working from home two days a week to reduce commuting time/gain personal time. We put in a pool this summer so I could increase my exercise. WOW -it is breathtaking with the mountain views!
  • We were able to cut my husband’s work to 3 or 4 days a week. We are getting used to this adjustment to our income and it has not been bad.

All the above has not been easy and I have made painful choices along the way to make it happen. After the completion of my projects in 2007 I expect to make another adjustment-have not been able to decide what that is-which is making me uneasy I usually can quickly identify next steps.

On the personal front, we have a new subdivision going in less than a mile from us (lots starting at 200k, they keep reserving the local airport for people to fly in on their private planes to consider purchase.) Our community could be in for a big change over the next 5 years as this community launches-when it sells out we may find our financial reward resulting in our next move. Not sure where.

**** Tim’s comments ****

The first step I made yesterday was to increase productivity by purposeful planning and reducing time on email. I scheduled two email reading times – one at 12:00 and the other at 4:00. NO READING EMAIL AT OTHER TIMES. I disabled the feature on my computer that automatically sends email as it comes in and now send/receive mail twice per day and will do this all month. It was a big step for someone who conducts LOTS of business online and MAY be an email addict. I may have to enter a 12-step program to wean myself off checking and responding to emails as they come in. “Hi, my name is Tim….I have a problem”

Tim Richardson is an inspirational speaker who speaks about how giving increases employee morale, lowers employee turnover, increases customer loyalty and creates higher profits for Fortune 500 companies, associations, and national conventions. He is the founder of the The Worlds Biggest Blog Party an event which will connect bloggers from all over the world to raise money for charity. He is also founder and president of the Bill Walter Melanoma Research Fund. For more information on Tim, go to www.TimRichardson.com

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Randy Pausch: Just want the Doctor ordered…

25 Sep

During a recent routine annual physical, my doctor noticed some swelling in my stomach. That led to x-rays, a sonogram, and then last Friday a HIDA scan. It looks like a pretty good possiblity that I will be selling my gall blader on ebay.

When doctors start having to look carefully in places inside your body, one can’t help but wonder. I am NOT a worrier but the earlier findings did cause me a moment to pause and ponder my mortality (you can imagine my wife thought about it a little too). It’s reassuring that my doctor isn’t worried, so I’m not. If even it was something serious and I was looking at a shorter life than planned, I really have no regrets. Life has been good. I have experienced lots of love, laughter, and living and thankfully the gall blander just doesn’t seem to really be necessary.

I like to think that IF I were looking a the end of life (and I’m NOT!), I’d handle it with the grace, dignity, and humor of Carnigie Mellon Professor Randy Pausch who has cancer is only expected to live a few months. He gave his last lecture last week. It’s worth more than a quick watch. It’s worth a lifetime semester. His ”last lecture” was delivered without the sad tone one might expect. In fact, Pausch is quite funny and totally gets what this blog is all about…Living Rich. He values what is important and has lived a live with passion, meaning, and purpose.

Both Wall Street Journal and ABC news covered it. There are two versions below:

1) WSJ version - about five minutes 

2) ABC News Version - about 18 minutes

What would you say if you were giving your last lecture?

Tim Richardson is an inspirational speaker who speaks about how giving increases employee morale, lowers employee turnover, increases customer loyalty and creates higher profits for Fortune 500 companies, associations, and national conventions. He is the founder of the The Worlds Biggest Blog Party an event which will connect bloggers from all over the world to raise money for charity. He is also founder and president of the Bill Walter Melanoma Research Fund. For more information on Tim, go to www.TimRichardson.com

Bologna Queen – no kidding

21 Sep

This week, I gave a keynote speech for the Health Care Association of Michigan. After my Living Rich inspirational speech, a lady came up to me and introduced herself. She thanked me for my comments and told me that she was the Bologna Queen in her community – (As Dave Berry says, “I am NOT making this up!”). She received this designation as a result of raising the most money (read more here). She’ll be joining the World Biggest Blog Party too. It just goes to show you, there are all kinds of ways to raise money (with or without becoming king or queen of something!)

All of a sudden, I am hungry for a sandwich and I don’t even like bologna…

Tim Richardson is an inspirational speaker who speaks about how giving increases employee morale, lowers employee turnover, increases customer loyalty and creates higher profits for Fortune 500 companies, associations, and national conventions. He is the founder of the The Worlds Biggest Blog Party an event which will connect bloggers from all over the world to raise money for charity. He is also founder and president of the Bill Walter Melanoma Research Fund. For more information on Tim, go to www.TimRichardson.com

Bill Clinton’s new book

6 Sep

On Good Morning America today, it was announced that Bill Clinton came out with a new book called “Giving”. Here’s the books blurb: “Giving is an inspiring look at how each of us can change the world. It reveals the extraordinary and innovative efforts now being made by companies and individuals—to solve problems and save lives both “down the street and around the world.” Then it urges us to seek out what each of us, “regardless of income, available time, age, and skills,” can do to help, to give people a chance to live out their dreams.”

Let me know what you think of this book (not what you think of Bill or Hillary). You can be the kind of person Clinton wrote about by participating in the World’s Biggest Blog Party.

Tim Richardson is an inspirational speaker who speaks about how giving increases employee morale, lowers employee turnover, increases customer loyalty and creates higher profits for Fortune 500 companies, associations, and national conventions. He is the founder of the The Worlds Biggest Blog Party an event which will connect bloggers from all over the world to raise money for charity. He is also founder and president of the Bill Walter Melanoma Research Fund. For more information on Tim, go to www.TimRichardson.com

Katrina anniversary

30 Aug

When I am speaking to audiences about how to get rich by giving, I almost always tell the story of Becky Zaheri. Becky exemplifies one of the key points of my speech – “Use adversity as the inspiration to take action”. I was thinking about her yesterday when I heard on the news that it was the second anniversary of Katrina. Though I have written about Becky Zaheri before, she is worth a mention again. Her amazing actions have been profiled on the Ellen Degeneres Show, on CBS News and countless other shows and newspapers. It was two years ago yesterday that a hurricane named Katrina changed her life. She mobilized thousands of volunteers to clean up New Orleans and her Katrina Krewe organization continues to foster anti-litter awareness among residents, schools, and businesses. Becky has some advice for others. “Whatever your gig is, just do it. Pick the thing that works for you. Be diligent about it, until you make it happen. Be patient, be willing to sacrifice and don’t stop until you achieve your goal.Start with your friends, your family, your co-workers and get it going. As long as you feel good about it and are making a difference, you don’t need an army of people. One person can make a difference.  You could be that one person today.

 

Guest Speakers Motivate and Inspire 49ers

28 Aug

I received a Google alert yesterday that led me to the a story about the San Francisco 49ers. They are using their training camp like every other NFL team. They are putting the team through rigorous physical training, daily practices, skill development, game preparation, etc. They are also giving them food for their minds. Read the story below by Chrissy Mauch.

August 26, 2007

Since taking over the team three training camps ago, head coach Mike Nolan has probably scheduled hundreds of meetings for his players, but in addition to the daily meetings to review practice or game tape, Nolan incorporates a few motivational speakers to his camp agenda.Linebackers and assistant head coach Mike Singletary works with Coach Nolan on the theme and then goes out and tracks down impressionable speakers to address the team. With this being a year of high expectations, Singletary sought speakers who understood the concepts and importance of team and hard work.“Mike Nolan and I will talk and I’ll say, ‘Mike this is the theme of what I’d like to do. I want it to be about team,’” said Singletary. “This year has to be about team, the coaches and the players coming together and making it happen.”

Curt Menefee, the new anchor for Fox’s NFL pregame show also featuring Terry Bradshow, Howie Long and Jimmy Johnson, was the first to take center stage during the opening week of camp. Menefee had an hour to share his life experiences, and used it to stress the necessity of taking advantage when an opportunity lands in your lap.

“”He talked about how he was always ahead of the curve, he was always ready when the opportunity called for him to step in and do the job that he was asked,” said wide receiver Brandon Williams. “I just look at that and take it right to the field. As a two guy or a three guy, if a one guy goes down, you have to be ready for your opportunity. Your opportunity can either shine a positive light on you or it cans shine a negative light on you and you obviously want the positive.”

Menefee also gave the team some pointers when it comes to dealing with the media.

“It’s really important that you learn that you’re in control of the questions,” said veteran quarterback Trent Dilfer. “Your attitude and how you handle questions really is what the public knows you as. We wear these helmets so they don’t get to know us as people. They only get to know us through the media. It’s a great opportunity to show your personality, show who you are to the masses, the people paying our salaries and the people supporting us on Sundays. It’s a message that young guys can’t hear enough.”

Rocky Blier shakes hands with Michael Robinson while Brian Jennings waits his turn. To watch the video of the three guest  speakers, click here now!

Next up was Rocky Blier, a four-time Super Bowl Champion with the Pittsburgh Steelers who overcame a war injury and returned to the NFL when all odds were against him.

“He was a very inspirational talker,” said wide receiver Arnaz Battle, a graduate of Notre Dame, also Blier’s alma mater. “When he came in, I didn’t know much about him because he was before my time. It was good to see a Notre Dame alum give courage and an inspirational talk to younger guys who are going through similar things, playing in professional football. It’s a tough task, but he’s a guy who overcame a lot of adversity and still made it.”

Aside from taking a gun shot and suffering badly burned legs from a grenade that exploded under his foot while fighting in Vietnam, Blier never met with the NFL standards when it came to size or speed.

“It was wonderful to be among greatness, just to hear his experience in the NFL, his story of how he overcame adversity in his life and his belief and hope that he had,” said defensive end Bryant Young, another Notre Dame alum. “He knew he belonged and it was just a matter of working hard to achieve his goal.”

Like Blier, Young can relate to overcoming a devastating injury that most people expect you not to come back for. Back in 1998, Young suffered a career-threatening broken leg, but determination and will power kept the defensive end on a sure track to come back from the injury.

“You just have to know that there’s light at the end of the tunnel,” said Young. “If I see just a sliver of light, I know that there’s promise. For me, it was just those little baby steps and just being patient which allowed me to continue to move forward, knowing it would be better.”

Singletary hopes that the story that Blier shared with the 49ers might one day serve as that sliver of light when the going gets tough.

“I think as a player sometimes, everybody is in their own world,” said Singletary. “For me, when you have someone in like Rocky, some of the things he said and talked about really spoke to a lot of the players in terms of the habits that they develop, in terms of him only having half a foot. Guys if you want it, it’s there. It really is. When you hear that it’s sort of like, ‘Wait a minute, what the heck am I talking about? I have two good feet and two good legs. I can do this.’ It’s just the encouragement like that that makes all the difference in the world.”

Closing out the camp guest speakers was another former NFL player, Joe Ehrman, who played 13 years for the Colts. Ehrman shared the death of his younger brother to cancer, an experience that forever changed his outlook on life.

Since ending his playing career, Ehrman has worked as a pastor with the lifelong mission of helping teach youth what it means to be a man. He also talked about what a man shouldn’t be measured by, and the myths that real manhood is defined or measured by athletic ability, wealth or sexual conquests.

“Being the role models that we are, we have an influence that we can show or portray to the youth, particularly the male youth of the generations to come,” said linebacker Manny Lawson. “We want to help them and make them grow up to be men. He was talking about what we can do in our NFL careers, but also life in general. I think with the story of his brother the message was really what kind of legacy do you want to leave? How do you want to be remembered?”

Ehrman also believes that the best way to secure a championship is by chemistry and working towards a collective cause – exactly the theme Singletary aimed for when he helped put together this year’s speakers.

“I think that really hit home with a lot of guys on this team because we define our success by the chemistry we have on this team,” said center Eric Heitmann. “We use that chemistry to fight for winning a championship. No matter how many times you hear an inspirational speaker or something that’s motivating, it keeps registering home with you and you just keep building on that motivation. It makes you want to change your life every time you hear it. It’s really beneficial for us and it can really help you out in the long run if you apply that message in your life.”

And as much as the 49ers care about winning, they also care about what these players do with their lives.

Fall is a great time to regroup your team whatever it is and give them some inspiration. If your organization can’t afford to hire a speaker, use a movie clip or bring a local celebrity. When people are serving either as volunteers or as employees of an organization, sometimes just a little inspiration can go a long way to help the group function better. I’d welcome some input both inspirational movie suggestions as well as other ideas on how you and your group are conducting “training camp”.

Tim Richardson is an inspirational speaker who speaks about how giving increases employee morale, lowers employee turnover, increases customer loyalty and creates higher profits for Fortune 500 companies, associations, and national conventions. He is the founder of the The Worlds Biggest Blog Party an event which will connect bloggers from all over the world to raise money for charity. He is also founder and president of the Bill Walter Melanoma Research Fund. For more information on Tim, go to www.TimRichardson.com

I need a theme song…No kidding

12 Aug

Needed: a great high energy intro song

Next month, I am speaking for the National Exchange Carriers Association at their annual meeting in California. Apparently, as their speakers are coming to the stage, they play a song to welcome the speaker on stage and I need one…this week. I have thought about a few songs that I really like the beat to but the words don’t seem to fit. SO, I am turning to the power of the web in hopes that someone out there will suggest the perfect song.

Ruled out: You are my Sunshine, the Hookie Pookie, most popular songs from my high school or college years, Wind Beneath My Wings, ANYTHING by Paris Hilton, Britney Spears, or Lindsay Lohan, rap music (is that an oxymoron or what?). What do you think? Tell me your song and why you think I should use it and you’ll win a fabulous prize (okay, I made the prize part up).

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I am also speaking for the Brain Injury Association of Michigan next month. My contact there sent me this link to a story about her daughter who wanted to do something to encourage our service men and woman defending our country. I’m so impressed that this teenagaer spent countless hours putting a tribute together for those in far off lands keeping us safe.

Here’s the news clip and here’s the entire presentation she made.

Tim Richardson is an inspirational speaker who speaks about how giving increases employee morale, lowers employee turnover, increases customer loyalty and creates higher profits for Fortune 500 companies, associations, and national conventions. He is the founder of the The Worlds Biggest Blog Party an event which will connect bloggers from all over the world to raise money for charity. He is also founder and president of the Bill Walter Melanoma Research Fund. For more information on Tim, go to www.TimRichardson.com

Ebb and Flow

6 Aug

We recently had friends in from out of town. Their kids are older than ours and they were telling us of their trials and tribulations (and there were many). It made a huge impact on my wife and me. We couldn’t stop thinking about their situation for days.

A day or two later, my son, age 11, was reading my bio for a proposal that was sitting on the kitchen table for my wife, Adele, to proof. When I wasn’t around, he said to her, “Gosh, Mommy, have you read daddy’s bio? It’s so long. He sure has done a lot with all the books he’s written (two). Do you think the president has heard about him?” 

Wouldn’t it be great if we could always live up to the pedestal our young children put us upon? W, are you listening?

Tim Richardson is an inspirational speaker who speaks about how giving increases employee morale, lowers employee turnover, increases customer loyalty and creates higher profits for Fortune 500 companies. He is founder of the Bill Walter Melanoma Research Fund. For more information on Tim, go to www.TimRichardson.com

How To Raise Children That Care.

3 Aug
Martha Wegner guest blogger
Last month I attended a high school graduation party. The daughter of a former colleague of mine, Lindsey is a lovely girl; one I don’t know too well, but from all accounts she is a superstar. She has a nearly perfect grade point average, has won state honors at forensics tournaments, is captain of the cheerleading squad, and is a gifted pianist. The list of achievements and accolades seems never ending. No wonder the top colleges are scrambling to sign her up. Yet, watching Lindsey and her friends, the ones with the cell phones held to their ears and the cars that their parents bought for them parked in back, a tiny worry kept nagging at me, and continues to nag at me: In our zeal for raising the best and the brightest, have we forgotten something? Sure, we’ve done our best to provide the best in schooling, the best camps, and the best music lessons, just so our children can win the achievement race. But has all this bestowing of the best on our children given them a self-centered attitude, one that suggests that “I” come first above all else? Have we somehow forgotten to stress the importance of intangible virtues? Virtues which will never earn you a good grade or first place ribbon; virtues such as kindness, generosity, and selfless giving? Does it matter? I think it does; I hope it does.Recently, our local news station ran a story on some exceptional volunteers. One of these was a 17-year-old high school student named Mike Stott.According to the story, “At the start of his sophomore year, Mike noticed Kyle Watkins, a fellow classmate with Down Syndrome. Mike realized that Kyle could use a friend who would treat him like a regular teenager. Mike and Kyle did all kinds of things together. Mike taught Kyle how to play golf.That activity turned into something unexpected — a golf league for people with Down syndrome.Another young teen, 14-year-old Whitney Buesgens, was honored for her volunteer work at Our House Hospice. This 14-year-old talks with people who are facing death. She reads to them and offers comfort. “Even when they’re dying, they’re happy to see me,” Whitney says. “Nobody likes death. They’re all scared of it. But I’m not afraid. I’m the kid in the room who listens to them.”These are amazing examples of children who have looked outside themselves, and decided to do what they could do to make the world a better place. Not only are they making a difference in their community, they are in fact enriching their own lives. They’ve experienced the pure pleasure and satisfaction one feels when he or she does a good deed for another person.

It’s a feeling no object or award can give you.

So, how did Mike and Whitney and other young people like them decide to reach beyond their cell phones and text messaging to help others? Listen to what 93 old Pearl Anderson, a volunteer at the local nursing home for 60 years has to say: “My parents were adamant about two things – pursuing an education, and sharing your blessings with those who don’t have them.”

Yes, we parents have work to do. If we want our children to be contributing members of society, to reap the benefits of doing good deeds for others, we’d better get busy. As Martin Luther King, Jr. said: “Every [person] must decide whether he will walk in the light of creative altruism or in the darkness of destructive selfishness.”

So, how do we teach our kids to “walk in the light of creative altruism”, to be the ones who do the good deeds, both big and small?

Here are some suggestions to get you started:

Do as I Do

Remember the Boy Scout Slogan: “Do a Good Turn Daily”. Do a good deed, maybe 2 or 3 everyday, and make sure your kids see you doing it. Sweep the elderly neighbor’s front step; put away that shopping cart that is in the middle of the parking lot. Thank the person who is bagging your groceries. No need to brag or make a big deal of it – just let your kids see what you are doing and let them know how good it feels to you.

Provide Opportunities

Give your children opportunities to “do a good turn daily”. The next time your yard is full of leaves, hand your child a rake and tell him or her to rake the neighbor’s lawn (in addition to your own). Sign the whole family up to work for Habitat for Humanity for an afternoon. Remind your child to pick up trash lying in the school hallway.

Take Notice

In his book, Nurturing Your Child Now: 10 Basic Skills to Protect and Strengthen your Child’s Core Self, Dr. Ron Taffel suggests we point out the good deeds our children are doing everyday. “Praise your child when he is courteous to you or when he does something for another person. And be sure to point out when someone else is being kind. Get into the habit of asking yourself at least once a day, ‘Have I pointed out any act of kindness today?’”

Big days Mean Big Opportunities for Kindness

Volunteer at a soup kitchen with your children on Thanksgiving. Visit a hospital to deliver gifts to children during Christmas. Have your child write a thank you note to someone special on his birthday.

Join up

Sign your child up for groups whose main mission is to do good deeds (along

with having fun). Groups such as Boy Scouts, Girl Scouts, or the youth group at your church or synagogue are a good place to start.

Read all about it

Read with your children books about inspiring heroes such as Eleanor Roosevelt and Abraham Lincoln. What made these people great? What good deeds did they do for others? You’ll both find that their greatness lies in the good things they did for others.

Give unto others

Most of us give money or goods to charity. Let your children know which charities you are supporting and why. Let them be part of the decision making process.

The well-known psychologist, Carl Jung, said, “It is only our deeds that reveal who we are.” I want my children’s deeds to reveal to themselves and to others the great and wonderful beings that they truly are. Time to get busy!

Tim Richardson is an inspirational speaker who speaks about how giving increases employee morale, lowers employee turnover, increases customer loyalty and creates higher profits for Fortune 500 companies, associations, and national conventions. He is the founder of the The Worlds Biggest Blog Party an event which will connect bloggers from all over the world to raise money for charity. He is also founder and president of the Bill Walter Melanoma Research Fund. For more information on Tim, go to www.TimRichardson.com

One degree hotter

31 Jul

It’s hot today…really hot. At what point does one degree really make a difference? Watch this short video clip to see how 1 degree makes a HUGE difference.

Be a difference maker! Focus on incremental change today. Think about what it means to improve in something by 1 degree and do it.

Tim Richardson is an inspirational speaker who speaks about how giving increases employee morale, lowers employee turnover, increases customer loyalty and creates higher profits for Fortune 500 companies. He is founder of the Bill Walter Melanoma Research Fund. For more information on Tim, go to www.TimRichardson.com

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